A CEO I worked with had her whole body start to shut down on her.
She was literally falling asleep during the important meetings, and she thought something was wrong with her body. She went and checked with doctors, and the results came out that she had no problem except the cortisol level that was unusually high. She went on a journey to find what was happening, and that is when she met me. She thought she was managing her busy life well, but the burnout had gone past tiredness. Two weeks of vacation would not make it go away, and every time she tried to sleep, she would be bombarded by a million thoughts and wake up a couple of times during the night.
When the shallow sleep and the coffee reached their limits, her body made the decision for her to stop.
Most accomplished people I work with know some version of this, more or less, at some point in their career, because leaders endure emotional and physical pain and consider it normal, a part of running a successful business, a career, or an empire. The shoulders that will not come down during the big quarter, or the stomach that knots on Sunday night. And we treat these as breakdowns, the body failing us at the wrong moment, something to push through, because pushing through is what has always worked, or we treat the symptoms.
Your body is wanting to collaborate with you.
It was never against you. It held the old programs, struggles, and beliefs. And when holding stopped working, it spoke louder until she had to listen.
The body is the messenger. The symptoms are only a mere form of communication, your body's language for what it has been holding on your behalf. Once you release what it has been carrying, the message is complete, and the body settles.
And the language is more specific than we assume, because the body speaks in locations. The shoulders speak about responsibility, which is why the weight of the results of this quarter lands exactly there. The tightening in the upper belly usually means you have not been exercising your power and talents to the fullest, and there is something that needs to be released. In private sessions, the place that is speaking shows me where to look, and while the baseline of the translation is consistent, you are in communication with and informed by your own body.



